Losing the role that shaped your identity can leave a gap that no achievement or distraction can immediately fill. The part about people trying to comfort you while missing the depth of what was happening is something many go through after abrupt life changes. Redirecting attention toward everyday presence instead of chasing what’s gone is a difficult but necessary adjustment.
Keep moving forward Chris. That’s the best advice I could give you. Find something you enjoy, new hobbies and stick to it. Your life isn’t meaningless without basketball and when you realize that, life gets easy. I’m only 28 but I also feel like life is moving on without me but once you find something you love to do, you’ll realize it’s not your only purpose
I think you might relate to my posts recovering from a stroke. It has alot of similarities
Losing the role that shaped your identity can leave a gap that no achievement or distraction can immediately fill. The part about people trying to comfort you while missing the depth of what was happening is something many go through after abrupt life changes. Redirecting attention toward everyday presence instead of chasing what’s gone is a difficult but necessary adjustment.
Keep moving forward Chris. That’s the best advice I could give you. Find something you enjoy, new hobbies and stick to it. Your life isn’t meaningless without basketball and when you realize that, life gets easy. I’m only 28 but I also feel like life is moving on without me but once you find something you love to do, you’ll realize it’s not your only purpose
Deep thanks I always was so proud of how you kept going! And I understand know. MVP always in my book .. Bosh
❤️❤️❤️ Bless you
Well said, Chris. Not easy to do but you’ve laid out a plan. All the best!